I was reading a quote today that stated if you’re talking to someone and they mainly see it as an argument, get aggressive, or take it personally, it’s not an insult to you. It’s a sign that they did not learn how to properly communicate and have relationships or conversations with people. I have noticed this more frequently recently.
For example, I was talking to someone the other day. I tried to speak softly and kindly to them, but they took it personally. I mentioned that I love going to the gym for myself and that I don’t go there to look for a romantic partner. The girl responded by saying I could definitely find someone there. I clarified that I just go to the gym to work out, and she said, “We can just have different opinions.” I never argued with her or said she was wrong. I simply stated my preference. She took it very personally, got angry, and walked away.
I couldn’t believe that a simple statement led to such a reaction. I replayed it over and over in my head, realizing I hadn’t said anything insulting. This is just one of many conversations where people get upset and take everything personally. Nowadays, people seem to lack the ability to communicate properly and handle conversations without taking offense. Everything seems to revolve around them, and they get offended easily.
I was speaking with someone who, minutes earlier, commented that I was only 20 years old. When I mentioned I love going to Comic-Con, she responded condescendingly, saying her high school sister loves that too, implying it was childish. This person was overly sensitive and rude. Despite my efforts to be nice, she was unpleasant, and I was shocked by her audacity.
The point of sharing this experience is to emphasize the importance of not taking everything so personally, not making everything about oneself, and understanding that there is more to the world around you. We need to learn how to handle conversations maturely. If you find yourself constantly feeling defensive, arguing, or taking things personally, consider seeking help. It’s crucial to learn how to communicate and not take everything as a personal attack.
We need to do better in communicating with each other and not being so demeaning, rude, or argumentative. Many people seem to lack basic communication skills, making it increasingly difficult for others to interact with them. I share this as a tip for everyone to understand the need for better communication and maturity in handling conversations.
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Yep, this is sad but true.
If it is any consolation, I didn’t think your statement (RE: going to the gym to just workout) was offensive. People who react without thinking… Well, the problem is with them!
I’m 41, and I still watch Mr Bean the animation series! And I don’t really care what other people think.
“You’re weird, you are,” I sometimes get, to which I respond: “Yeah, I am.” Lol the look on their faces, though. Hilarious 😆